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		<title>262 Level Up Your Email Marketing Game with Liz Wilcox</title>
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		<pubDate>Wed, 02 Oct 2024 05:00:13 +0000</pubDate>
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					<description><![CDATA[<p>Hello Rebels, welcome to episode 262 of The Rebel Author Podcast. Today, I’m talking to Liz Wilcox all about email marketing for authors. In this episode we cover:  The importance of personality in email marketing How often to send newsletters to your audience Tips for self-promotion How new authors can grow their email lists Measuring [&#8230;]</p>
<p>The post <a href="https://sachablack.co.uk/2024/10/02/262-level-up-your-email-marketing-game-with-liz-wilcox/">262 Level Up Your Email Marketing Game with Liz Wilcox</a> appeared first on <a href="https://sachablack.co.uk">Sacha Black</a>.</p>
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										<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p><i><span style="font-weight: 400;">Hello Rebels, welcome to episode 262 of The Rebel Author Podcast. Today, I’m talking to Liz Wilcox all about email marketing for authors.</span></i></p>
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<p><strong>In this episode we cover: </strong></p>
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<li>The importance of personality in email marketing</li>
<li>How often to send newsletters to your audience</li>
<li>Tips for self-promotion</li>
<li>How new authors can grow their email lists</li>
<li>Measuring the success of your email marketing</li>
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<p><strong>Links I mentioned: </strong></p>
<p><a href="https://www.kickstarter.com/projects/rubyroe/nsfw-lesbian-vampire-romance-special-editions?ref=2k7fux" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">Support my Kickstarter</a></p>
<p><strong>Find out more about Liz:</strong></p>
<p><a href="https://www.facebook.com/groups/emailmarketingwithliz" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">The Email Sound Booth Facebook Group</a></p>
<p><a href="https://www.instagram.com/thelizwilcox/" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">Instagram @thelizwilcox</a></p>
<p><strong>Rebel of the Week is: Jacqui</strong></p>
<p>If you’d like to be a Rebel of the week please do send in your story, it can be any kind of rebellion. You can email your rebel story to <a href="mailto:rebelauthorpodcast@gmail.com">rebelauthorpodcast@gmail.com</a></p>
<p>2 new patrons this week, welcome and thank you to <strong>Pavlov </strong>and <strong>GA Rea</strong>. A big thank you to my existing patrons as well. If you’d like to support the show, and get early access to all the episodes as well as bonus content you can from as little as $2 a month by visiting: <a href="http://www.patreon.com/sachablack">www.patreon.com/sachablack</a></p>
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		<title>031 How to Create a Reader Funnel with Derek Murphy</title>
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		<pubDate>Wed, 20 May 2020 08:00:57 +0000</pubDate>
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					<description><![CDATA[<p>Welcome to The Rebel Author Podcast episode 31. Today’s podcast is with Derek Murphy. We’re talking about how to create a reader funnel, what one is, how to create it and why it's key to developing a fan base.</p>
<p>The post <a href="https://sachablack.co.uk/2020/05/20/031-how-to-create-a-reader-funnel-with-derek-murphy/">031 How to Create a Reader Funnel with Derek Murphy</a> appeared first on <a href="https://sachablack.co.uk">Sacha Black</a>.</p>
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<p style="text-align: left;">Hello Rebels, welcome back to The Rebel Author Podcast episode 31. Today’s podcast is with Derek Murphy. We’re talking about how to create a reader funnel, what one is, how to create it and why it&#8217;s key to developing a fan base.</p>
<p>This week’s questions is:</p>
<p><strong>What kind of content do you put in your reader funnel?</strong></p>
<p>Book recommendation this week is my book <em>10 Steps to Hero: How to Craft a Kickass Protagonist.</em></p>
<p>Grab a copy on Kobo <a href="https://www.kobo.com/gb/en/ebook/10-steps-to-hero-how-to-craft-a-kickass-protagonist">here</a>:</p>
<p>Find out more about our guest on his website: <a href="http://creativindie.com/">creativindie.com</a></p>
<p>Win a signed ARC of The Anatomy of Prose Competition 1, on Instagram <a href="https://www.instagram.com/p/B_j8Sfcg143/?utm_source=ig_web_button_share_sheet">here</a>.</p>
<p>Competition 2 is through Rafflecopter, you can enter <a href="http://www.rafflecopter.com/rafl/display/a082fc535/?">here</a>:</p>
<p>Don’t forget <strong>The Anatomy of Prose</strong> is on preorder now, you can get it in ebook paperback and hardback <a href="https://books2read.com/anatomyofprose">here</a>.</p>
<p>LAUNCH PARTY</p>
<p>I’ll be hosting a LIVE Q&amp;A to celebrate the launch of The Anatomy of Prose: 12 Steps to Sensational Sentences. The Live will be on the 29<sup>th</sup> May at 9pm BST, 1pm PST, 4pm EST, 6am AEST. If you’d like to ask me anything about writing, marketing, publishing or… unicorns then drop your questions in the blog, the<a href="https://www.facebook.com/groups/rebelauthors/"> Rebel Author Facebook group</a>, or tweet me @<a href="https://twitter.com/rebelauthorpod">rebelauthorpod</a></p>
<p>This week&#8217;s rebel is<strong> Adrian Farr. </strong></p>
<p>If you’d like to be a Rebel of the week please do send in your story, it can be any kind of rebellion. You can email your rebel story to <a href="mailto:rebelauthorpodcast@gmail.com">rebelauthorpodcast@gmail.com</a> or tweet me @rebelauthorpod</p>
<p>Thank you to new patron, Paul A. If you’d like to support the show, and get access to all the bonus essays, posts and content, you can from as little as $2 a month by visiting: <a href="http://www.patreon.com/sachablack">www.patreon.com/sachablack</a></p>
<p style="text-align: center;">THIS EPISODE IS SPONSORED BY KOBO WRITING LIFE</p>
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		<title>4 Mistakes to Avoid When Using Mailchimp</title>
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		<pubDate>Mon, 11 Apr 2016 07:00:48 +0000</pubDate>
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					<description><![CDATA[<p>If you try something new for the first time and you don&#8217;t fuck it up, you&#8217;re probably not doing it right. Mistakes are natural, normal and help us learn to get better. I’m doing a monthly newsletter full of even more writing tips, competitions, handy writer hacks and news on my progress towards publishing. If [&#8230;]</p>
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										<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p><img loading="lazy" decoding="async" class="wp-image-4003 alignleft" src="http://sachablack.co.uk/wp-content/uploads/2016/04/mailchimp-mistakes.jpg" alt="Mailchimp mistakes" width="398" height="331" srcset="https://sachablack.co.uk/wp-content/uploads/2016/04/mailchimp-mistakes.jpg 1842w, https://sachablack.co.uk/wp-content/uploads/2016/04/mailchimp-mistakes-660x549.jpg 660w, https://sachablack.co.uk/wp-content/uploads/2016/04/mailchimp-mistakes-300x249.jpg 300w, https://sachablack.co.uk/wp-content/uploads/2016/04/mailchimp-mistakes-768x639.jpg 768w, https://sachablack.co.uk/wp-content/uploads/2016/04/mailchimp-mistakes-1024x852.jpg 1024w, https://sachablack.co.uk/wp-content/uploads/2016/04/mailchimp-mistakes-1200x998.jpg 1200w" sizes="auto, (max-width: 398px) 100vw, 398px" />If you try something new for the first time and you don&#8217;t fuck it up, you&#8217;re probably not doing it right. Mistakes are natural, normal and help us learn to get better. I’m doing a monthly newsletter full of even more writing tips, competitions, handy writer hacks and news on my progress towards publishing. If you haven&#8217;t signed up yet, you can tick that off your list by clicking <a href="http://eepurl.com/bRLqwT" target="_blank" rel="noopener noreferrer">here</a>. HINT!</p>
<p>I made mistakes. But I’m a writer. So standing up, dusting myself down and picking up the proverbial pen again is in my blood.</p>
<p>When I wrote the post on creating your perfect <a href="https://sachablack.co.uk/2016/02/29/7-tips-to-create-your-perfect-author-newsletter/" target="_blank" rel="noopener noreferrer">Author Newsletter</a> I’d already found Mailchimp hard to set up and master. But SO many people said the same thing I knew I had to regroup and share some of the lessons I’d learnt doing my own newsletter.<span id="more-3987"></span></p>
<p><strong>MISTAKE 1 – NOT SPEAKING THE LINGO</strong></p>
<p><em><strong>Lists versus Campaigns</strong></em></p>
<p><strong>Lists</strong></p>
<p>Like every social media outlet, Mailchimp has it’s own secret club language. But rather than handshakes, tweets and statuses, it’s <em>lists and campaigns.</em></p>
<p>When you first set up Mailchimp – you can’t actually begin to collect email addresses without a ‘list’.</p>
<p>I know. I know. It sounds back to front – how can you have a list without email addresses?  But for Mailchimp – the first thing you have to do is create a list in which the email addresses you collect will filter into. You have to create a list in order to populate it.</p>
<p>The reason, I assume,  is so that you can have one Mailchimp account but multiple subscription lists for different things/projects/clients/books etc.</p>
<p>Before you do anything else – set up your list and name it something obvious like ‘Sacha Black’s Author List’ or whatever, in case you decide later you need an extra list. As far as I can tell (after a quick look) once you name your list, you can&#8217;t change it.</p>
<p><strong>Campaigns</strong></p>
<p>A campaign is really just a newsletter or a promo email or whatever you want to send out to your subscribers. For me it’s newsletters.</p>
<p>What’s important to know here, is that 1 campaign = 1 newsletter.</p>
<p>So if you send your newsletter once a month then EVERY month you need to create a new campaign. You can’t reuse a campaign once it has been sent.</p>
<p><strong>MISTAKE 2 – NOT SETTING UP TEMPLATES</strong></p>
<p>If you intend on sending a newsletter or promo regularly then it’s helpful if you don’t have to keep creating your newsletter from scratch. If you want to have totally different content in each newsletter then this won’t help, but I’m guessing even if its just a welcome box and sharing buttons, having it set up as a template will shave a few seconds off. And lets be honest, we’re all busy people, whether its having a toddler attached to your thigh whilst you simultaneously cook, email and iron, or your having a ladies that lunch date, every second counts in this life.</p>
<p>I you want proof it works, because I set up a template, my second newsletter has only taken about an hour to write, populate and link up, where the first took about three.</p>
<p><strong>MISTAKE 3 &#8211; SHARING BUTTONS</strong></p>
<p>If you send a newsletter you want it to be read, right? If someone likes it, you want them to share it with other people to in the hope it gets you more subscribers.</p>
<p>Numpty over here *<strong>waves</strong>*didn’t realise there was a difference between buttons. I really ought to do &#8216;detail&#8217; more often. Sigh.</p>
<p>Mailchimp has two types of social media buttons:</p>
<figure id="attachment_4001" aria-describedby="caption-attachment-4001" style="width: 136px" class="wp-caption aligncenter"><img loading="lazy" decoding="async" class="size-full wp-image-4001" src="http://sachablack.co.uk/wp-content/uploads/2016/04/share.png" alt="Button that allows subscribers to share your newsletter with others " width="136" height="139" /><figcaption id="caption-attachment-4001" class="wp-caption-text">Button that allows <strong>subscribers to share your newsletter</strong> with others</figcaption></figure>
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<figure id="attachment_4000" aria-describedby="caption-attachment-4000" style="width: 120px" class="wp-caption aligncenter"><img loading="lazy" decoding="async" class="wp-image-4000 size-full" src="http://sachablack.co.uk/wp-content/uploads/2016/04/follow-e1460314126260.png" alt="Button that allows subscribers to follow you on other social media platforms" width="120" height="126" /><figcaption id="caption-attachment-4000" class="wp-caption-text">Button that allows <strong>subscribers to follow you on other social media platforms</strong></figcaption></figure>
<p>Big thank you to <a href="http://dgkayewriter.com" target="_blank" rel="noopener noreferrer">Debby</a> for pointing this out to me <img src="https://s.w.org/images/core/emoji/17.0.2/72x72/1f600.png" alt="😀" class="wp-smiley" style="height: 1em; max-height: 1em;" /></p>
<p><strong>MISTAKE 4 – AVOIDING THE SPAM FOLDER</strong></p>
<p>Ah the joys of spam. Until I researched it – I had no idea just how many words and innocent actions would get you sent straight to the spam folder.</p>
<p>Apparently the fact I have a gmail account is a big no no, but not having the time or inclination to set up my own personal @me email address I&#8217;ll have to make do. The answer is to ask your subscribers to add you to their address book. Short, sweet and an easy solution.</p>
<p>Here are some of the actions that will get you binned:</p>
<p>Going crazy on the email size</p>
<p>Over doing the image balance</p>
<p>Starting the subject line with Re or Fwd or using all caps</p>
<p>There is a huge list of words that will also get you sent straight to the junk folder, have a look at this <a href="https://emailmarketing.comm100.com/email-marketing-ebook/spam-words.aspx" target="_blank" rel="noopener noreferrer">list</a> or do a quick google.</p>
<h3><strong>What mistakes have you made? What other handy tips do you have for newsletters? Let me know in the comments</strong></h3>
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		<pubDate>Wed, 19 Feb 2014 15:20:28 +0000</pubDate>
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					<description><![CDATA[<p>Like the TV advert, the wife and I decided to set up an email account for our newborn  son to open on his 18th birthday. We will spend the next 18 years sending letters, photos and videos to him in secret, so that his life with us is chronicled. I thought you may like to [&#8230;]</p>
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<p>Like the TV advert, the wife and I decided to set up an email account for our newborn  son to open on his 18th birthday. We will spend the next 18 years sending letters, photos and videos to him in secret, so that his life with us is chronicled. I thought you may like to read my first entry.</p>
<p>My Dearest A,</p>
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<div>You are currently my little sleeping beauty upstairs in your crib. I am hoping you are reading this on or around your 18th birthday, as we have now given you the password and account details for this account.</p>
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<div>I want you to know, wherever you are, wherever we are, I am immensely proud of whoever you have become. I love you with all my heart, you are my world.</div>
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<div><i>&#8216;The Very first moment I beheld him, my heart was irrevocably gone.&#8217; Jane Austen.</i></div>
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<div>You&#8217;re 11 and a half weeks old, just shy of 3 months old. I look at you now and wonder how you came to be. It feels like you have been here my entire life, and yet, for just a moment, and already I love you with such immensity that it takes over my entire being.</div>
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<div>I am still at home on maternity leave with you at the moment and will be for a few more weeks. I savour every moment of time I spend with you, because I will be at work soon and then every moment I spend away from you will be a moment wasted. <img src="https://s.w.org/images/core/emoji/17.0.2/72x72/1f641.png" alt="🙁" class="wp-smiley" style="height: 1em; max-height: 1em;" /></div>
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<div>The best parts of my day are when you smile at me, or when I get to watch you learn something new. Your making lots of noises these days, and beginning to form a real laugh, and I can&#8217;t help but giggle every time you do; your learning to sit &#8211; although you scream in protest every time we practice, you much prefer standing up. You love your door bouncer and finally your starting to learn to roll over.</div>
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<div>I am talking to my 18 year old son&#8230; I will be 44 by the time your 18. Oh my god, that seems like a life time away, I can&#8217;t imagine what I will be like at 44, or who I will be, let alone who you will be.</div>
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<div>What do I hope for you? Firstly and most importantly I hope you are happy. I hope you have had a wealth of experiences, good, bad, naughty and ugly! I hope you are safe and well. I hope you have studied hard, and played harder, I hope you have loved and lost and loved again and I hope you have travelled.</div>
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<div>Every parent wants their child to be a doctor, lawyer, pilot or some other well paid career. But I just hope that you have found something that will make you happy for the duration of your career, I don&#8217;t care if your a ballerina, a seamstress, a chef or a boxer. As long as you work hard you will be the best you can be, but enjoy whatever you choose to do in life, because life is too short to be unhappy&#8230;. but secretly I do hope you have chosen to go to university! I met your mumma at university and I am sure I speak for her too when I tell you how much fun we had at university, even during the all nighters trying to finish assignments.</div>
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<div>I hope you enjoy the next 18 years of emails! It might take a day or two to get through!</div>
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<div>Happy Birthday baby boy, I love you always and forever, mummy. xxx</div>
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