With a little over 5 weeks until the big day, (wedding day) I thought you might like to hear how I met my future wife
In true Sacha style, not only was my proposal unique (that’s a story for another day), so was the way I met my beautiful partner.
As if fate had always intended, not only did I live on the same street as my future girlfriend, we had mutual friends, and I worked in the pub she drank in.
I must have served her a million times before we met, and for some reason we had never noticed each other.
That’s a good thing because we were both in relationships.
About three and a half years ago on exactly the same day, fate struck again. We both became single, under different circumstances but it happened on exactly the same day. Both having been in substantial relationships neither of us were particularly fussed about meeting someone.
Exactly six days later….
I was at work, had been in the kitchen of my student bar so stank of chip fat and grease, but a mutual friend of ours persuaded me to grab my spare t shirt and head to the club. So off I went with my stinky work combat pants and spare t shirt, no make up and no hair done, generally looking a state, and slide up to the bar to cue for a pint. At this point my future girlfriend apparently spotted me with our mutual friend at the bar (I was oblivious at this point) so she decided to grab my attention.
She trotted up to the bar and barged passed me shunting me to the side as she whispered in our mutual friends ear. Furious I turned round ready to scruff this random rude girl up. I looked at her, and melted instantly. She was genuinely the most beautiful women I had ever seen. I felt sick with butterflies.
She went back to wherever she came from and I grabbed our mutual friend gasping “who’s your friend? Tell me she’s gay and tell me she’s single??”
The mutual friend groaned and said she is, but only recently I wouldn’t go there if I were you.
Too late.
I was hook line and sinker for this gorgeous women.
I made our mutual friend introduce me, and we stood chatting, I was barely able to make conversation I was so hideously full of butterflies and adrenaline.
There was at this point another girl, who was obsessively chasing me and I had absolutely no interest in her. I told the future girlfriend this and she said, bold as brass in front of me “well why don’t you let me kiss you in front of her, and she might go away…?” she said grinning at me with her cute white teeth and mesmerising smile.
I about threw up there and then, and felt my legs want to give way. I giggled completely unable to utter a response, and wished beyond anything that she would just kiss me, and ravish me right there in the club. I wanted her. BAD.
We spent the rest of the night chatting and talking, she had me wrapped around her little finger instantly, and I was captivated by every syllable she said. Four of us went back to my house for a while and then we walked everyone back down our road a few houses and into her house. We chatted until the early hours of the morning. It must have been about 4 or 5am and I started to shiver Β her house was not the warmest, so she went to get me a duvet. The four of us carried on chatting and I sat on the sofa next to her as she laid the duvet over us. Our mutual friend sat on the other side.
Whilst we carried on chatting she put her hands under the duvet, and edged it closer to mine. I could feel the warmth from her hand getting closer to mine and it made my stomach churn.
Our little fingers connected, and I could feel the electricity between us. We held hands under the duvet till the light came up. I said good night we her number in my phone, and walked home with a grin I couldn’t remove.
We spoke all week and met up a few days later. A week after we met, on my birthday, all our friend were out, it was a london underground party and I was dressed as ‘Angel’ a slower song was being played by the Dj and we sidled up to each other dancing slowly arms locked around her neck. She looked into my eyes and her soft lips touched mine. It was the most delicious kiss I have ever had, and all our friends cheered whilst they danced around us!
That was three and a half years ago. Now, in 5 weeks time, she will be my wife.
I will tell you how she proposed next time!
NOTE: This is not actually us!!
addicteve says
Damn,can’t wait for next time…
Sacha Black says
lol, glad you liked my story (which is all true) π I’ll try not to keep you waiting too long. Thanks for reading π
ahamin says
Oh… and congrats π
Sacha Black says
Thank you π
I like how you also showed your affection for each other in secret. I think it’s all so romantic!
Thanks for taking the time to read my blog.
ahamin says
Reminds me of how I met my ex-fiance, I was staying with relatives, and she was a friend of the family, we touched hands while everyone was busy together.
Lovely story, though the gay element is not where I stand. But I am without a doubt stand for love… π
Novia Olam says
I love,love,love your meeting story! It’s so cute. Especially the part where you held hands under the duvet. π
Can’t wait for your next post.
Sacha Black says
Thank you :D. She really is the cutest. I caught myself a good one!
Thanks for reading, I will try to post another tomorrow π
Storm M. Silvermane says
That is just so freaking sweet!
Sacha Black says
I know right!! she is just sooooo cute!! π Also, where have you been?!?! I thought you had died in the heat!!
Storm M. Silvermane says
Oh lord, I thought I was going to die in the heat, then it had a handful of rain kicking.. Plus Did I tell you, I suppose I haven’t told anyone.. lol.. but the organization I founded and am President of is one of the organizers of having our first pride here in this town we live in.. It has been interesting lol.. Oh and you never told me, what did you think of Only in the Movies?
Sacha Black says
yeah I got that you weren’t happy!! I wish we could have some heat!!
hmm, this is your writing yeah?? ah sorry thought I had replied, sometimes my feed deletes stuff. I thought it was great actually, fab concept haven’t read anything like it before, I would probably edit a couple of sentences just to change a few words, but you create really amazing imagery and that is so important for me when choosing literature.
yeah, lol I know about your pride, when is it? have you had it yet? I went to London pride a couple of weekends ago. It was really poor, I was quite disappointed actually. I blogged about it on Queer Landia another blog I write on now!! hows yours going???
Amy says
Aww. .that s so cute. .although m nt gay. .i totaly love ur love story.
Sacha Black says
Thank you that’s really kind π
Debern says
Thats soo cute. I wish so much for somethng like dat. Am just comx out n i havent met any lesbians yet. Wel wish u best
Sacha Black says
Well I don’t know what country you live in or your age, but if in the UK I may be able to offer some advice π thanks for the well wishes. X
Malaka says
Nice and lovly
Sacha Black says
thank you π
bobleponge216 says
Sweet, everyone should experience something like that at least once in their lives.
Sacha Black says
Ah thank you 6 years on and im still just as happy π